CC I am no expert by far, however it does not seem that you farted as loud as you think.. (:-))
You weren't yelling, you weren't making things up, you weren't insulting.
You both hugged.
I do know how you feel. Sometimes I wish I would just STFU too because of harming my journey. But I guess its all part of the journey.
Its always good to refocus on DB... I am with you on that.
Have you set some boundaries now?
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home