Look what the cat dragged in! (TL)

[Not Quitting]

Thanks so much again to Pud and everyone for the warm facebook welcome. It made my day to have friend requests to wake up to (even if it was close to 11am when I woke up).

Glad you found us on FB.

He even asked me if I wanted to go get my haircut soon (weird, he likes it long, there has never been TOO long in his book, usually I have to insist on going).

Do all men prefer long hair? My H prefers long hair, and even told me when I cut mine short that he didn’t like – I now have it in a similar style to how I wore it when we met and married and he didn't have any complaints back then so what's the problem now . I'd say if you want to cut it or change the style for YOU then do it, NOT for your H.

But then I see he is now smiling and with her in her facebook banner photo.

Why are you looking at her FB page? It isn’t going to do you any favours, and in fact will cause more harm than good. KP is right - don't ask about the OW again. Don't let her have any space in your head.

Pud will get this - it looks like your H could be one of the MLC triplets (only now it would be quadruplets LOL :D) with Pud's , TTD180's and mine - they all seem to do or say similar things.