I have found that with DB you don't understand the parts you are working on until you have moved through it. That's why taking the vets advice is so important.
What you have just realized is major and you are right - it takes time getting there! Now stick with the advice, stay on your path and do not backslide.
Go GAL! All the best!
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.