She hasn't worked in years. Even years before we were married. Her parents have supported her. Since married I have been supporting us. She's saying bye to all of our things, life and friends here, our pets, me supporting. I don't know how long her parents will do it again. She has a lot think about and I don't think she has. She isn't thinking straight and there it too much influence on her now. If this is what she wants she has to face all of it.