I think I can stop this.... can you help me?

[Fitz]

Lat night was a rought one. Probably the worst night we have had since this started.

W and I started talking about money. The conversation led to her telling me that I should be the one to move out. Then it went on with her telling me that we will have 50/50 custody of our son.

I tried to keep my cool and kept telling her to stop making decisions for me about anything, that I can worry about myself.

She told me once again that she was done with this marriage, that every other aspect of her life makes her happy, and it is the marriage that makes her so miserable. I snapped a little, told her where the door was and that she could leave any time she wanted to. I told her that I was done also and wasn't going to play this game with her anymore and let her leave my life in limbo while she tries to figure this out.

I don't know if I see this getting better at this point. Could last night have been the final straw for her? SHe really let me have it. Or should this be expected as part of the process?

I said a lot of things in the heat of the moment that I'm not so sure that I ahould have