One other thing, with regard to kissing her and hugging her, I might suggest laying off on that.

Think back to a time in your life when you broke up with a girlfriend and started seeing someone new. If your old girlfriend rushed up to you and kissed you or hugged you, how did that feel?

You do NOT want to inspire that feeling in W.

If you can kiss her or hug her with confidence and swagger, or in a playful manner, you can probably get away with it. If you do it in a manner that is loaded with emotional longing, stay away.

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015