I might have left the last line off about the charger but that's easy to say in retrospect.

I'm happy for you T, you didn't go the victim-y tit-for-tat route! YOu were in control of yourself.

It's good that you're happy.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss