Thanks for the reality check. I just want to scream and kick and shout at her that "WE CAN WORK THIS OUT. THIS D IS ONLY AN EXCHANGE OF PROBLEMS THAT WILL EFFECT THE ENTIRE FAMILY. WE HAVENT SOLVED ANYTHING."

But I know I can't do that. It is really hard living with her and trying to put on a happy face at the same time. I dont have a big house and there is not much room to get away. I dont want to just take off because I want to be around and hang out with the kids.

I do not start many conversations, but she seems more than happy to ask me a question or strike up a conversation, or sit and watch TV me etc. It truly seems that she isnt bothered by this very much.

Im so confused and sorry if Im whining.


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14