I - of course - have a name, with a very nice root meaning, imo. Various EE folks commented on my behavior matching this meaning, in fact, and I am very happy with it.
To rephrase, should I shouldn't care if W no longer calls me by name? Let it wash off, it being her problem?
Context: a distant foreign aunt of mine, who has/knock on wood had brain cancer, called to wish me happy birthday. I was happy to hear from her and that she is doing okay, given that the last time I saw her was in the cancer ward. She and W used to be good friends, but W has not communicated with her any more. Aunt said it would be nice if W got in touch again.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.