AJM is correct. A lot of brain science says dreams are often kind of a "training ground" your brain uses to work out complicated psychological issues or to run scenarios, especially fear based scenarios to give you practice coping with the unknown. (My H reminded me of this, when I mentioned I was still having some EFFED up dreams just a day or two ago).

I dreamt most recently that my H was in a very serious car accident with OW and I had to work through the logistical issues of getting to him in the hospital with no car and no money on hand through the kindness of friends and then work through the situation hamstringed by his own shitty decision making up to this point.

I don't think I slept a wink the rest of the night.


me-35
WAS-37
T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."