"Dating" is NOT a strategy, nor a "technique", that is either endorsed or recommended in DB'ing.
Putting any kind of "moral" issues off to the side, actual dating can open up a whole new can of worms for you, your marriage, and whoever it may be that you happen to "date". Why add more confusion to what you already have going on?!
Try the "get a life technique" instead. This will produce better results for both you, and your marriage, in the long run.
"Dating", and involving yourself romantically with someone else solely to gain the attention of your partner can be a dangerous thing to do, and can more often than not backfire on you BIG TIME!!
There are many other ways you can get her to think about whether or not she really loves you. Ways that can produce better results, and hold less potential for long-term damage in an already rocky situation.
JJ
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