Too sad. I feel the lump in the throat, that's my sad-o-meter.
How about
"I'm sick of you" by Iggy Pop???
Goodbye Betsy (substitute D!ckhead here) im goin' away I'm sick of you and there aint no way Dont want to know, dont want to see Dont you ever bother me Sick of hanging around your pad Sick of your Mom and sick of your Dad Yeah and Betsy, its sad but true, now im even sick of you. No way, no way, no way No way, no way, no way No way, for our love
OR...
You're so Vain
OR (My personal Favorite--sorta diff version of Iggy's)
"I hate Everything about YOU" by Ugly Kid Joe
I strongly suggest watching the Youtube video.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
I got it! Here's what you need to post on Facebook. I crack myself up! :-) Have at it Bestie.
Lyrics to A Good Man Is Hard To Find :
My heart is sad and I'm all alone my man's treating me mean I regret the day that I was born And the man I ever seen
My happiness is less today My heart is broke, that's why I say Lord, a good man is hard to find You always get another kind
Just when you think that he's your pal You look and find him foolin' 'round some old gal Then you rave, you all crave You want to see him in his grave
So if your man is nice, take my advice; Hug him in the morning, kiss him at night Give him plenty lovin'; treat your good man right
Oh, a good man is so hard to find We always get that roughed old kind Just when you think that he's your pal You like and find him hangin' 'round some old gal
Then you rave, how you crave You wanna see him dead layin' in his grave
So if your man is nice, take my advice Hug him in the morning, kiss him at night Give him plenty love madam, treat your man right 'Cause a good man nowadays sure is hard to find
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
Ugh. Yes I notice mine listens to songs that are all about running off and being happy forever, spending eternity with someone else. Bob Marley... "One love, One life, let's get together and be alright."
He seems to think it is just a weird coincidence or I am imagining things. I don't know. I think at some level they are setting themselves up to keep living the dream, even if they already know at some level they are fooling themselves. "Fake it until you make it, or finally give up" kind of thinking. :P
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
Dang! I should have brought my dancin' shoes to your thread last night!
Hey, at least your H posts on FB! The W is a FBstalker! She only reads and hardly ever posts. She has always said, "I don't want everybody knowing where I'm at and what I'm doing... Don't tag me in that... etc..."
Heeheeeheee! Me thinkin', "I bet you don't... Wayward Love of My Life!"
Me(F):40 WAW:44 T:13yrs M:9yrs BD:2/12 (I saw a text) ILYBINILWY: 5/12 PA admission: 12/12 (began 3/11) S:2/13 Moves in w/AP D begins: 7/13 W moves home to R: 10/13
RT, I don't know if that is better or not if that i better or not. Mine has his public because "I have nothing to hide" knows darn well MG stalks his page ( she has said as much to him).
Sometimes I think he posts just for her and has pics up of our trips etc, but never mentions "we" (well he did a few times but me never by name)
A couple of times he has admitted to posting just to bug her, but this was July (just after they broke up)
I on occasion, have thought about posting in order to transmit info without contacting H, but manage to stop my self lol!! I posted a couple of things over a year ago when we were NC/LC (and I mean as dim as one could get sharing kids)
When we started talking he said he always would go over (I used to post public-he blocked me lol. And I seemed so happy
Now i am aware that "Hey" is never gonna be beneficial to me,he hasn't seen this pattern yet, and I'll just keep that to me.
H said he would come over this weekend to do a few things-nothing important.
today he explains that he has a course this weekend that just came up and he explained he had things to do but the leader was insistent so.....
Now that explanation was verbatim (pretty much)
I said that it wasn't my decision to make and he could choose whatever and it really didn't affect me. Just as long as he realized that I would not be the bad guy in this. As in do the work at the house and feel resentful towards me. Or go and feel guilty then feel resentful towards me. That the decision was his to make.
He then replied that he wasn't asking.
So I said Be Clearer in your statement then.
He admitted he had stated as a question and it is still hard for him to do things for himself if someone else is put out (I am not explaining that correctly)
He aslo admitted that he still has a hard time making decisions. I gently suggested that perhaps it was because then he had to take full responsibility for his actions because he decided for him and no one else. I also said that I had the same problem, but in reverse. I would make everyone's decisions and then blame others when the decision didn't work out.
So, we are both working on taking the full responsibility for our decisions. Him to make his own and handle the consequences, me to make my own ONLY and handle the consequences.
He then posted on FB about freedom and how it is a gift and doesn't necessarily mean the end of something..blah blah.
Oh he also lamely added to have D take out the Christmas lights and he would put them up Saturday night. I said the lights weren't an issue and he should think about staying up at the mountain at his friend's place if he is having a good time (it's a two day course) Not, I said that you are not wanted here, you might just enjoy the company.
I basically called him out on his appeasement issue. The lights aren't so technical that I can't handle it myself lol. But he has to start taking control of his own life
^^That was just journalling, but my rather long winded point is that I recognized the dynamic and stopped it before it played out.
Now I see what Heather thinks in terms of Her H needing her to be weak.
H needs me to make his decisions so he can have someone to blame if they don't work out. I've seen him do this in every area of his life. Or he will begin to self sabotage in order not to succeed and therefore not to fail.
This time, however, when the dance came around, I bowed out.
Good work Kate! I need to start eating what you eat for breakfast. You are so much quicker than me.
When I foresaw a pattern today in the works I was dumb enough to tell my H about it. I told him I recognized a pattern and I would be watching to see if tomorrow he does exactly what I expect. And then I remind him, "Thanks yourself, you are the one who taught me to analyze data and recognize patterns. It is turning out to be really useful." I need to keep my smarts in my brain and not my mouth.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
She only reads and hardly ever posts. She has always said, "I don't want everybody knowing where I'm at and what I'm doing... Don't tag me in that... etc..." 
but me never by name)