Wife says she wants to leave

[melissag]

I guess I felt like the only time we stayed in hotels was when we were away from D. So why WOULDN'T we have sex.

I think my H had this same thought. Or at least, that's the way he acted. And you know, now, it makes a lot of sense to me. But then, I took it as pressure and that was a turn off to me. I'm not sure if that's because I have/had issues, or if that's a common feeling with women. We get away from the kids (especially when they are little kids), we want to relax. Not get groped the minute we walk in. (I will say that now, for the record, I would be happy to be groped by my H in a hotel room. But, I can see why maybe that unwritten rule didn't go over well with your W.) I would tread lightly with this one . . . maybe create an opening for intimacy, but don't go in expecting it and acting like it's foregone conclusion. JMO.