It's the same here. If I even want to go on vacation outside the country with my son, I have to written permission from my H to do so. I can leave the province temporarily, but would have to have H's consent if I wanted to move to a different one. If I can't get into my own place before my son starts high school next September, then we wouldn't move very far as I wouldn't want to disrupt his schooling by uprooting him during high school. I just want to get us into our own place, rather than being under my dad's roof - although I do have a lot to be thankful for with my dad.
I'm like you as well - I have no plans right now to get involved with anyone else if things don't work out with H. But I wasn't planning on falling for or marrying my H - it just happened. The key is to live your life and make the most of everything. If someone comes along who is right you'll know it, but now is not the time to be thinking that way.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
I agree NQ, I plan to take life as it comes as well Hope you're ok K, sorry I've not been on lately, my cable has been down.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I agree with you on that too but for myself I don't think that I will ever get married again one time is good enough for me. I may just maybe someday just find some one just to hang out with. Oh I have good news I was just approved to be recovered under H's medical coverage. Now I'm just hoping that H doesn't file for a divorce cause if he does then I will no longer be covered and I would have to get coverage somehow. I know able to get refill's for my blood pressure. Well that's it for now.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
That's good news K Let's hope he doesn't file I don't think I'll get married again. I was thinking about if I ever met someone, I don't really want to go through all that again. It'll be like being a teenager again, heartache if we break up. I have had a bit of attention, but I'm not interested at the mo. I will stand for my marriage until I can stand no more
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Hello 180 its OK I know you had most likely read my couple last posting all ready but I think that I'm doing a bit better. I'm planning to go this weekend with a co worker. Well tomorrow is going to be a very sad day it would have been the happiest day of my life I would have been celebrating my 14th wedding anniversary. In a way I would like to wish my H a happy anniversary but I won't I'm going to treat tomorrow as any other day cause its not a happy day.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
Good for you That's what I did when it was my anniversary, treated it as any other day. I even had a carnival meeting at my house, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I know that I can't and will not share my feelings with H at this time. So I'm going to post it here; I just want to say happy anniversary to my H. I miss you and I hope that you are happy in your new life. And one day I will find my happieness again. I know I still have a long way to go to get there but I will. We have The best two boys in our lives and I know deep down that we will both do the right thing for them. And I hope that we can still remain friends even if we don't find our way back to each other. I wish you nothing but happiness in your new journey and I will one day fine mine. OK that's it for now I'm.starting to cry now. I just need to get this out for myself. I'm so greatful to have a place that I can write things down to help me through my journey.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013
K - You are so strong. You will find happiness. You are well on your way and you have two great guys by your side. I love being about to come on this forum and vent away. Have a good cry and let it all out. I hope you have a great day
That's a lovely idea to write here what you were going to write to your H Now go off this PC and do something that is nothing to do with your anniversary. (((hugs)))
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Hope you're ok K, sorry I've not been on lately, my cable has been down.