Thanks Melissa smile
I just don't get it, though. Why does my H just 'exist'? He doesn't leave or file divorce. He doesn't want to work on our M. He just goes through the motions of life.

If asked (Which I don't do anymore) he gets incredibly angry and cannot even hold a normal human conversation. Why can't he just say I'd like to move in (fill in the blank) direction?

How can they look at their family and not know if they want to do everything they can to keep them together?


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014