Last night W told me she has been thinking a lot about what I said and she thinks I might be right. Here we go again! I just tried to remind myself that more than likely she's back on her roller coaster. She wanted to talk when she got home she said, but when she actually came home we didn't talk. I made myself available in case she wanted to say anything to me but she didn't.
This morning I was leaving for work and she was mad as a hornet. I had decided that I was going to start driving my car again (usually I drove her old car and she drove my newer car). She was yelling at me wanting to know why all of a sudden I want to take that car, and saying she has a bunch of stuff in there etc and she wishes I'd stop switching cars. I just said is it really that big of a deal? If you need to get anything out of the car you can go ahead.
I had a holiday party at my work this evening so I was an hour or so late getting home. I didn't hear from W all day. But then she texted me and wrote "tell your lawyer... Ooops I mean your coworkers that I said hi.
So she seems a little paranoid that I am out meeting divorce lawyers. Man, I feel kinda bad for her she definitely is going through something in her head here big time. I don't really get it but I'm just going to keep trying to work on myself and let her do it say what she wants.
Me 37 W 33 son 3 T 4 years M 1.5 years BD 11/14 - W wants a divorce 11/17-current W wants a separation currently living together
"The slightest bit of light, and I can see you clear" -Eddie Vedder