OMG! I could just throttle this man! He is such a bully and a huge @ss.
He really is trying to pressure you into agreeing to negotiate w/him. Well, it looks like to me it's now out of your hands and you do not have to worry about meeting him. He's flipped over and I bet he's hoping that you'll come back and say, "h, we can still meet. I'll be happy to meet w/you. Please don't shut me out because I do want to work on things w/you". Give me a break...does he really think you are that stupid and would jump through hoops to meet w/him after acting like this?
WR, after this little missive, I would sit tight and wait until next Friday, which is the 13th. I'm telling you, you can't rationalize with him and yes, dear...he's a nutty buddy butter cup.
Your next move? Absolutely nothing. Sit quietly and the answers will come. He's toying w/you. Leave him in the stew pot to simmer. Step back, don't play his game.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.