I needed that. Yes, I have read DB, I feel like a million times! When we first moved out, in August, I wasn't sure how to act because I knew I was pushing him away...but he was not telling me it was over!
Ten I remembered DB and I got back into it. I completely backed off...and yes...he started initiating. In reality, we started communicating regularly again only 2 weeks after we split...and each month since there have only been a handful of days that we haven't. So, I was thinking that we were back on track and pursuit wasn't bad. Then with Thanksgiving, he saw me emotional for the first time since we split. He apologized for hurting my feelings, and I know he felt bad but with him backing off again this week, I suppose it is the typical reaction.
Back to the game...it is really amazing how the smallest of backslides makes such a huge difference.
I start a new job tomorrow that is back in the same town. I am so happy, it is such a fresh start. Every time I have gone down there, I have stayed overnight with BF...this time I am going to stay with a friend.
TY!
Me:35 BF:36 Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13 still "together" but not together. Confused. D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)
