Thanks for the advice guys. Unfortunately I have to be there because she doesn't have the key. I can let her in and then leave but last time I did that, she took some things that I wanted to talk about before they were gone.

At this point we both have been thinking about this for a long long time and we're both exhausted. I don't think we are reacting anymore and 48 hours isn't going to change either of our minds.

She's shown that she will do what she wants (which is see the OM) regardless of what the "rules" of the separation are. She has no character or integrity, at least with respect to me. I like your advice MrBond and I guess that's what I am going to go with.


Me:38 W:39
No Children
BD: 5/13
EA/PA Confirmed: 7/13
W Moved out 12/13