Back....again.

[TrentC]

I know. It was the wrong thing to do. I just needed someone to listen and I picked the wrong person. I told him all of this. I don't want to involve my friends because I feel like they would hate him. My sister and mom understand we have had our problems in the past and they don't ever think differently of him. I think that's why I felt safe talking to them.

I understand; I actually talked to my family a lot in the months after BD. But eventually I stopped because it became obvious that the more I talked to them about it, the more upset they got about her behavior.

I am at school and he is leaving the city this afternoon to ref. Should I text him that I won't talk to them anymore? Our talk ended short this morning cause I had to get to school so we never really finished. Or should I leave him to have the night to cool down a bit????

Let him come to you about this. Tell him just what you said; that you needed to discuss things with someone you trusted, but that you made a mistake talking to your family and you want talk to them about this any more.