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Yes, Mach, to the inner processing of stuff after the fog lifts from our heads.

In my case, I was very fortunate that I had the opportunity to discuss my feelings with my father about the divorce and the aftermath effects on me after I had come out of my MLC fog. He apologized and was truly sorry for the pain I had carried with me. I do feel much better and more accepting of the divorce now. This is not to say that I'm entirely home free on this front as I do experience occasional twinges of pain at strange moments. Fortunately, this was done some time before my father was stricken with cancer and passed away in the Fall of 2012.

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Gee whiz J, your poor W. Thank you Mach for that great explanation. I had a great childhood, but was wondering why so many folks who had a childhood much worse my H do NOT have MLCs. Now I can understand a bit better. I LOVE the Christmas card! We should give it to them for every occasion, maybe someday it'll stick smile

And thanks Wonka, for your willingness to let us look into your soul. You amaze me girl. Thank you so much. How's life treating you? I hope you are peaceful and happy!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17
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Dang. Over 100 again. Making new thread so no one shuts us down. Thanks to everyone. Really appreciate your insights. Glad to have you poking at the hornet's nest and revealing more for me Mach.


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T-22 M-18
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S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

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