Just wanted to let you know we sound similar...especially the "basket case" comment. Ha. I am not in any position to offer advice at this point but to keep on keepin' on. You sound like you are doing all the right things.

I'll keep up with you to see how you are doing. This is my second time back so you would think I would have some expertise in the matter given I busted my divorce last time. But I'm back...and clueless as ever

Good luck to you

M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14