I'm not afraid to take a stand.......

[Whiterose]

I sent it pretty much as Wonka suggested. I did add "I will also need a list of the topics you're wanting to discuss".

Thank you for your support and "words" so I don't get caught up in his crazy. We've been together so long Linda he knows how to get me......I guess my one vantage is he can't see me so he only sees my written response. He doesn't see it "hit home".

The child support is based soley on his income. My spousal is based on both, yes, my income took a hit when I lost my corporate order, he doesn't know that yet and I told my lawyer this am. The issue becomes I need a certain amount in child support and spousal to qualify for the mortgage. God, I wish I was rich and could make him go away.

What was I thinking with him!?!?!? I'm smart......love [censored]. Next man will need to be 100 and rich!! We'll see how the other women do it!! (Just kidding.....maybe:)). Lol