I think you are doing a great job. I hope you don't feel like you HAVE to meet with him because you don't. If he gets you so upset, maybe it's best for your attorney to handle him--especially if he spinning outta control. It sounds like he is spinning like a top.
Lots of love to you,
Heather
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