To little Too late

[2little2late]

You are right and that makes complete sense. Do it because it is the right thing to do and don't ask or expect anything in return.
Thanks for the advice.
I will let you know how it goes.

I have another question if you are willing. Should I ever ask my wife if she is planning on a divorce? Why I ask is because my wife has always been very vague when in comes to following through with what she says she is going to do.
I.E...
She said that ILYBINILWY and wanted a separation, but we never separated.
She has said that she is done with our marriage and wants to liver her life before it is too late yet we continuously plan for a future together.
I am just curious because I see that you had an in home separation for what looks like a year and 1/2. We have had zero intimacy going on 2 years now. When is it ok to ask about us and her intentions or is that something I should never do?
Any insight or advice would be appreciated.