I'm not afraid to take a stand.......

[RosaLinda]

Oh WR, I'm sorry you are going thru this. H is really trying to push your buttons, and seems to be doing a pretty good job of it.

I do not understand this statement: "She's also thinking that we haven't heard from his lawyer as they are going to argue my income and I may not get the spousal and child support I need." In the first place, didn't your income just take a big hit? And is child support dependent on both incomes in Canada? Here the non custodial parent pays a certain percentage of his or her income. It doesn't depend on the custodial parent's income, as it is a responsibility to the child, not to the parent.