on the edge pt 2

[dingo]

I had that same situation happen when our marriage was good. She would go out with friends and end up coming home 3-4 hours later than she said without letting me know. It used to drive me nuts because i always felt like it was common courtesy and respect to let me know. I never had a problem with her being out late if she kept me in the loop. We never figured out a solution to it and it was a pretty nagging problem.

She felt like if she was having fun, she should be able to stay out as long as she liked and 'lost track of time.'

I am pretty sure there was no A going on at this point. This was when we were still dating and during the first year of our marriage before stuff got really bad.