I talked to my lawyer today and she said she had said no such thing. She laughed and said he was crazy. I said I've told you that. That we have our judicial case conference that day and if we can decide everything I may be given a time frame in which to take over the mortgage. There will be no orders given that day unless it is something we both agree to. She's also thinking that we haven't heard from his lawyer as they are going to argue my income and I may not get the spousal and child support I need. She also said she doesn't mind if I meet him to see what can be resolved as I have my wits about me and that I won't be bullied into anything.
As I'm typing this h responded to my earlier "I'm in the middle of something I'll get back to you in a bit" text with "Ok. If I don't hear from you by end of day I will assume you are wanting to go to court"
He wants to put this on ME. So that when he tells people how unreasonable I am and how I made us go to court he's justified. I know he's baiting me but what an SSS. How do I take the emotion out of this? I don't know how. I'm really upset. How do I not go over to his work and be the crazy bitch he's a using me of.......
I'm so upset and low and confused. And hurt. Really, really hurt
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR