Sandi - in another thread you posted: You gave me 'go dark' advice and as soon as this damn moving week is over, thats exactly what I plan to do. I know its never too late until the papers are signed but how does she ever gain respect for me knowing that I know she is continuing to contact the OM and not kicking her ass out the door?
By holding on you give the situation power. Think about it. How funny is a joke if you give the punchline at the begining. It only has power because you give it life. Take the life away... Let her go, often times they see the knight in shining armour is just a clown in aluminum foil.
