He is upset that I went to my mom and sister. He said he would never throw me under the bus to his family. It changes their perception and it's not fair. I kind of see his point. But I don't think I would be entirely upset if he went to his sister or mom for advice. He is more upset about what they said and doesn't think he can ever face them again after knowing what they said about him.
I don't think he is going to run himself down. He isn't mad or sad at himself he is upset with what "I" did. He finds it very upsetting.
Last night he asked me if I can have my mom come down and help with the kids cause clearly our marriage isn't working.
I don't know what to say to make this better. I feel like him staying and sleeping in our bed with me may be a good thing. I'm just so overwhelmed and clueless as to what to say or do.
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
