Yeah, he's trying to lure you into his net. He's feeling it and wants to spread the joy. Stay on your side of the street. Let him wave his arms and do cartwheels.
You don't have to deal with any of this stuff, hence the attorney. He's not liking the reality of divorce.
Listen to Wonk.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson