That sounds like a good approach to the anniversary in your case.

Do not assume you know why she's been distant, just do what you're doing because you mean it and it is appropriate, not to get a reaction or prevent a reaction from her. Have zero expectations about how your gift is going to be received.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.