I took an almost decade long hiatus from "church" because I see so much wrong with so many churches that do not reflect what Christianity teaches. I never had my faith waiver, but I certainly questioned some things, especially organized religion. I can certainly see a lot of hypocrisy in the standard "Christian" church and its members as it and they exist today, and can understand the turn-off of this hypocrisy.
I eventually found out I had to find the right church for me. I need a pastor that connects with me, motivates me, and convicts me, and it's important that there is a solid kids program. I was lucky enough to have friends who provided guidance as well.
I also listen to podcasts from pastors who I like.
Obviously I'm biased, but I encourage you to seek out the truth. And run away from churches who aren't teaching it.
The search can be a very daunting task. Let me know if I can be of any assistance, especially with something as easy as recommending a particular podcast.
-PM
PM,
thanks for this post, it makes me feel better about how I see things.
AS, I like listening to Joel Osteen, I don’t even look at what church is belongs to, but he comes across to me more as a motivational speaker than preacher.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
