Your getting great advice. The only thing I would add or say is drop the D. Just drop everything and focus on you. Pushing for a D wont help.
Listen to what your W says, but don't change the course. You have to have patience for this.
re-read what Sandi and CL have said.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy