I truly do understand that one night won't fix everything. But if i can give one positive interaction, it may lead to another positive interaction, and so on.
One really big 180 for me is going to be the hotel. Their was kind of an unspoken rule for me that if we stayed in a hotel, there would be sex.
This time if it happens, great. If not I will certianly not make a big deal about it. I will not beg, I will not plead, I will not be passive aggressive.
I will gauge how the night is going, and if it seems to be moving towards sex, I will go for it. If she says no, I will act like I'm the coolest person in the world and she's missing out.
