cc, great list of your undesirable behaviors and your 180s. And it sounds like you are doing really well keeping up a PMA! Hope your night out goes well. I agree with labug that one night won't fix everything, but any positive interaction is a plus, right? So make sure you don't drop the DBing just because she is acting married again.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14