I am very much in the same place you are, although H isn't "back" per se. Bug's line about it not being trust but the "broken trust" really resonated. H is also capable of lying by omission, and doesn't get that to me it is the same as lying.
The don't ask won't tell adage.
Do I want to know this? Do I need to know this? Will this change the path I am on?
