Just spoke to my wife on the phone about a few things she wanted to talk about regarding our son which also included plans for over Christmas, specifically plans for Christmas day.

I got very emotional & teary on the phone when discussing Christmas and I told her that I find it hard to even think about it.

I know I am supposed to be upbeat and positive around her so will this have killed any possible attraction she may have been feeling?

I also know I am supposed to be detaching & some days I can do this but at the moment I just feel that I still really want my wife back. It is so hard, especially when my wife talks like it is over.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014