SO nearly a week of little contact, a few friendly texts.. no opportunity to talk on his birthday.obviously avoiding me- have to say it hurt a bit - but not as much as it would have 2 weeks ago
then last night a totally normal conversation.. he sounded like pre BD chatted, answered and asked questions..
I have to keep my expectations low if less contact means better contact then that is good.
Still no indication of his Christmas plans I could be alone with the dog ! I have made an alternate plan.. also am planning a week away with a friend. Normally that is our winter holiday week but I am going to plan and go alone.. He wants space so i guess that is space and if I don'T ask him then he won't have to give a negative answer which still sems to make him unhappy stressed wahtever it makes him feel... no clue. I am not bitter it is just a fact or does it sound bitter will it sound bitter.. How do I do this so he doesnot feel pursued and guilty but not abandoned..
