So this week we are back to work and our work dynamic. She stops by to see me and talk about work. I listen and validate. In some ways, it's like nothing has changed. She did seem more comfortable around me, we even had some playful banter today. She had to make a difficult decision at work that seemed to make her upset. This evening I called her to see how it all turned out. She was still upset, but suggested she didn't want to talk about work. Usually she can't stop venting. I asked her if anything positive happened today (as per my coach to redirect her negativity). She said no.
She somehow looked older today, but I still saw the beautiful woman I married. I noticed she was wearing earrings she hasn't worn in months. Sigh.
