I think you are doing great. Sooooo impressed. You definitely becoming the best dad and husband and person you can be. That's the bomb. Give yourself an ATTA BOY. :-)
Thanks for the props Heather. Just wish W wasn't in such a stupor and could see how hard I'm working for myself and my kids. Maybe she wouldn't be do quick to throw away 20 years and constantly tell me "I DO NOT LOVE YOU."
I'm really having a hard time figuring out how to handle the money situation. Each month I think I'm gonna set up something else to be drafted from our checking account. That way, everything is taken care of and she can't F it up.
BTW, nothing surprises me anymore. W was in a big hurry to get home from bball game so she could watch her favorite team on TV. So I took S12 through to get something to eat and still beat her and S10 home. W suddenly decided to go to grocery store. Came in with a SELF magazine. I'm sure it had great tips on being a fantastic MILF and attracting hot men.
You guys all told me it would get worse before it got better. I see that is true. Not sure how bad it's gonna get, but she's losing touch with reality real fast. Her friends have got to be seeing this. If she is being this absent minded and out of touch at work and in their convos they can't miss it.
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13