Accuray, you are right, it is humiliating. And at some point we all realize just how much we have humiliated ourselves in the quest for reconcilliation.
I believe the reason why th WAS tends to want the LBS when its too late is tied to this. When the LBS finally moves on emotionally, it is very clear to the WAS. There is no hiding it. And the humiliation stops, and the dignity comes back in full force.
And THEN the LBS is attractive.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
