I think the toughest part right now is seeing a different person. Not just a dishonest person who cheated on me. A person who no longer values the things they were once interested in. A person who no longer holds their friends or family close to them. A person who says they miss their kids...then fails to communicate with or see them when they are able.

I do not like the person he has become.
Thank you, Reality Trip, for the encouragement. I will keep trudging along

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014