RL, I have to agree with the others. I had to do this myself because H was being very rude. Now all of a sudden he is not quite as bad.

Your H has to understand you are holding all of the cards. You are the much better person. You are the one who is supporting him and he has the nerve to be rude? No one deserves to be treated bad, especially someone as wonderful as you.

Wonka I like your observation. In my eyes I don't understand how her H thinks he can treat someone that way after all they do for them. I realize he is mlc but that doesn't give him a free pass like everyone says here.

RL I realize you still love him, just like I still love my h but stand up for yourself. That was one thing that my c said to both me and my h that no matter what we need to stand up for ourselves. No one deserves to be treated bad.

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out