It was time for a new thread. I never thought I would still be standing after over 3 years and almost divorced 1 1/2 years ago. He says he is filing in January but I keep thinking of what Cadet posts "believe none of what they say and half of what they do".
I know I'm a better person and it has been confirmed by my kids so that makes me happy. I feel better. If my marriage is not saved at least I have that to be thankful.
I don't know what the holidays have in store for us. After not being very nice for a couple of weeks H is at least being civil. He knows the kids like Christmas lights outside and D21 and I put them up but had a few problems. H came over and fixed them and told me what I had to replace. A week ago I didn't think he would even do that.
What I find very strange is H won't hardly come to the house, even if i'm not home. When I was out of town we needed someone to take care of the dogs. Instead of staying here he came over let them out, fed them and left. I don't understand this. He continually says that he feels displaced and he doesn't have anywhere he feels home and he won't even come to the house he owns.
M 48 H 50 M 25 T 27 D 20,18,15 6/11 H filed 3/12 H dropped 4/12 H moved out
