I have to agree with the other girls Linda. He has been doing this too long and I think he needs to see a boundary from you. It's kind of like teenage behavior because it is EXACTLY where my S is at right now. Appears to be sulking and not conversant at all. I finally set a boundary with him. I do think it would give you a little boost of feeling better too. I really do.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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