If you have your feet up and a few spare minutes , that is awesome.
It is strange that you posted today. I was thinking of you. How despite our very different situations, that timeline from devastated to "putting our feet up" is a similar one. And the newbies will get there (here) too. I am putting up my feet as well, with an awesome cocktail and catching up. I feel content. A year ago I was hiding in closets.
I am proud of us, friend. We may ( OK, don't) have all the answers but we don't need to. Urgency is gone.
And never look a gift horse in the mouth, if H wants to do laundry, whatever floats his boat. Just hide your favourite clothes! And maybe hint that the dishes are feeling neglected (my least favourite chore).
