Thanks AJ, I know he needs to walk his path. He has been going through this for 3+ years and I don't understand how he cannot see it. Things that were always so important to him are no longer top on his list. I do know that helping to take care of his Dad is taking a toll on him and his emotions.

H called me selfish. He did because I got my way most of the time. H always worried about everyone else being happy and now all of a sudden it has gotten to him. I do realize that it is he who is being selfish. He always asks the rest of us "doesn't anyone care if I'm happy?" Stupid question.

It's time for a new thread. I don't know how to link or anything so I will just tell everyone that I think it's going to be called

I'm Still Standing.

If anyone would have asked me 3+ years ago if I would still be here it would have been a very loud NO! But here I am.

I hope you follow me there!

M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out