Moved Back from Overseas to Figure This Out...

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Ok...the last two weeks I have just worked on me, detached, continuing my running and basketball pickup games, taking the kids out, working, going out with a few good friends, reading, etc. etc.

I have stopped pursuing. A few thoughts.

1) She seems to be icier than ever. Is she resentful that I am GALing and not pursuing? Should I just get used to this? It seems that the advice from DB and DR would be to assess again in another week or two and change something if this persists?

2) After just a few weeks of better detaching, I am unfortunately tiring of her iciness and ignoring. It is making me begin to stop caring whether she decides to stay or go. I know that some will chime in that this is a good thing for me (to stop caring) - but it doesn't feel like a good thing. It feels like a divorce of the heart, for lack of better words coming to mind.