tiger, it sounds like you had some really good talks with your H, things that needed to be said. Maybe conversations that have needed to happen for quite awhile. Your H seems mostly lucid during these convos, lol, which is a good thing.

and the hat...really? LMAO!! what is it with mlc'ers and hats, especially ones that do nothing for them. My H is strictly a baseball hat kinda guy, so if he starts wearing something different, I would really wonder...and have a good laugh. Just have to make sure I didn't laugh AT him.

2t, I probably will be doing just that, setting up the tree and decorating by myself. I think I have done that at least the past 3 years. You're right.

I wish I only got HALF the nakedness you two are getting! Sheesh, makes a girl cry. LOL. frown smile


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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